It couldn’t be worse. After sex, the girl started crying. The first obvious thought that comes to mind is “Was it really that bad?” You try to peer into her face, maybe it seems she’s not crying. But the unfortunate woman begins to sob and any doubts are dispelled. The situation is difficult, but the main thing is don*t panic! What to do in such a situation? How to react? Hormonal problem Tears can be caused by post-coital dysphoria - a feeling of sadness, melancholy, which may be accompanied by tears. It turns out that this reaction is quite common, and men are just as susceptible to it as women. Studies have shown that this condition can last from 30 minutes to 6 hours. Obviously, such a reaction is provoked by the release of hormones at the final stage of sexual intercourse and stress comes in place of satisfaction and relaxation. What exactly causes hormones to influence the body in this way is not completely clear. Rather, a complex of factors is involved. First of all, the general psycho-emotional state of a person. Perhaps the negative experiences accumulated by a person over the past few years find their way out in such a bizarre and inappropriate form. It is important to understand what emotional background preceded sex. You may have been at odds with your partner. Your partner could have other problems not related to you personally. Also, you don’t need to discount nutrition, taking hormonal medications, or the presence of an illness. If such reactions appear regularly, this is a reason to think about it and seek help from a specialist - a sexologist or psychologist. What not to do If you want to have sex with this person in the future, it is important to react correctly. First of all, don't take tears personally. Sex with you is a reason for tears, but not the reason for them. Don’t make a scandal, sort out the situation. It is important to honestly admit that you are confused. Take a moment and tell your partner about post-coital dysphoria, she may not know anything about it. Tell us that a similar reaction occurs in many people. The main thing is not to label the girl as “crazy” and label yourself as a “sexual loser.” It's definitely not about your masculine strength. A timely contact with a specialist will solve the problem. Your grievances, silence, ridicule of the current situation will only worsen everything. Read more of my articles on my Yandex Zen channel. Subscribe and like.