We continue the trip through 7 scenarios of unhappy women in relationships. I’ll start, as usual, with letters. Olga, help! I’ve been married for 3 years and I can’t experience an orgasm... I try to focus on my sensations, I try to prepare in advance and breathe correctly, but nothing works. Every time I almost succeed, but I either lose excitement, or my husband orgasms earlier, and I don’t have enough time. What should I do? I can’t do it anymore!! My three-year-old daughter is constantly hysterical in the store and demands to buy her unhealthy snacks. I try not to go into the candy department with her, but there are candies at the register. I don’t take it with me to the store at all, but this doesn’t always work out. I read a psychologist’s advice that you need to endure a child’s hysterics. Yesterday I tried it, but my daughter screamed at the whole store, rolled on the floor and everyone looked at me disapprovingly, so I couldn’t stand it and bought her this unfortunate chocolate bar. I'll soon get to the bottom of how to get rid of a child's tantrums! The good old "No matter how hard you try" scenario: a person makes every effort, but every time something happens that separates him one step from the result. What evidence points to this scenario, Watson? The man mentions trying, trying, trying Contrasts: I tried, but... Enumerations: I tried both, and the third. Women are guided by two beliefs at once: Please others and Try. Yes, you are nodding correctly, the scenario “No matter what” try" is reminiscent of both the "Running in Circles" scenario and the Reckoning scenario. Who is to blame: the wolf or Little Red Riding Hood? Remember how Little Red Riding Hood came to her grandmother, where the wolf was already lying? She immediately realized that something was wrong. She asked a lot of questions, why do you have such big hands? What about the ears? And the eyes? And the nose?! All answers have already indicated that it is a wolf. Little Red Riding Hood should run so that only her heels sparkle! But no, she made it to the last, and the wolf ate her. Another example of this scenario is in the fairy tale “The Princess and the Pea.” The princess lay on twenty mattresses and twenty feather beds, but one single small pea kept bothering her. Follow through. Gather all your determination, courage and courage into a fist. Tell yourself: you can bring this matter to the end! There is no need to create unnecessary problems and try endlessly. Stop playing out the scenario: you go and try, and everyone feels sorry for you that nothing works. You can achieve results, have fun and relax. Drive the nail all the way into the head. Have you decided not to be hysterical? Fulfill your vow to the end. Imagine that you have already done this, stepped on the winner’s podium and said: “I did it, I’m great.” Everything will work out for you. In the next article, you will find out what scenario the old woman from the fairy tale Goldfish plays out. Subscribe so you don't miss out. Like it, if the article was useful or interesting, send it to a confused person. Sign up for an individual consultation with me. What things you just can’t finish??