Author: Vitaly Pichugin Source: http://www.nlplife.ru/ During the harsh reality of the struggle for life, food and women, men experienced little. Those who indulged in experiences rather than in searching for prey died quickly and in disgrace. Therefore, strong men had no needs. They had needs that needed to be met, which led to survival and reproduction. A need is an emotional experience of need. Men simply did not have time for such luxury. There is a need to eat. Why worry, shed tears, walk around the cave howling? These feelings will not help kill the mammoth. Is there a need? Get ready and do the job - catch and kill the mammoth. The worries were left to the women. They were waiting for the men from the hunt, those who were supposed to bring food. What else could women do? They could not kill the mammoth themselves. There was a need to eat, they were aware of it, worried, worried, and waited. • Feeling, worrying about your need is a need. The car has no need. There are needs, for example, to fill up with gasoline. No worries or fears. It's simple, if the need is not satisfied, the car will not move. There are no worries, we calmly search and fill up with gasoline. Men had (I believe, still have) a biologically determined need for sex. Otherwise, humanity would not have been able to multiply to such a huge population. The man did not worry, he satisfied the need. He saw a source of satisfaction grazing in the clearing, so he went and took it. There was no desire to give edible worms to the primitive lady in order to evoke reciprocal feelings. Harsh reality. If you want, catch it. • Probably, if an ancient man played with needs and persuaded his shaggy girlfriend for a long time, then humanity would simply die out. The worried hunter and warrior himself did not live long, and could not protect or feed the women. Therefore, those who survived did not have needs, as an emotional experience of need, but had decisions, actions, results. Those harsh times have long since sunk into oblivion. The world has changed. Everyone has needs. Women have developed them to cosmic heights, and many are proud of their sensuality, experience, and mystery. Mental trauma has become the most discussed topic in literature, cinema, and the Internet. • Someone who has a subtle soul and tender feelings may not tolerate trash. Firstly, it’s not aesthetically pleasing, and secondly, what if there’s a rat in there! But these experiences are what make women beautiful. Opposites attract. Men don't have that. Or is there already? Now many women have realized that there is no one in particular to catch with sad eyes and a mysterious soul. We stopped suffering pamperingly and went ahead, following the mammoth. If there is a need, go and take what is yours, no matter whose it is. • In politics, business, public life. While men worry about their needs and do nothing, women are forced to take their place. This was the case in ancient times. If men were killed or fell ill, women faced a choice: die with their children or start fighting, mining, hunting. Some died out of habit, while others did not give up, raised children, treated husbands (or found new, capable ones). A consumer society is a society of experiencing one's needs. Previously, men moved civilization, invented, made discoveries, need forced them. And now many people have no time to make discoveries or move forward. There is a need, now they are experiencing it. Will they survive? Victory over fear? Training "Removing fear at a time"".