We often talk about resources. And we write lists of what fills us up - do this more often. And what is devastating. It deprives you of spiritual strength and joy, vitality, liveliness, inspiration, and creativity. Meanwhile, if there is a leak within the boundaries - at least something with the resource - will flow out like from a leaky bucket. And when I begin to realize that there are leaks, I already understand that I need to fix them first. Here are the following stages: 1️⃣ I begin to realize my boundaries and notice how other people drive through tanks and become indignant. 2️⃣ I want to protect my borders and here we go. Rough, tough, uncompromising. There is a lot of aggression and from the outside it seems that everything was good, but now the person is becoming bad. And all because everyone was used to it - you could always drive past you when you wanted to come in or go out, while taking off your shoes or walking in dirty slippers... He was a good man. And now he has become bad. Many people turn away at this stage - it is important for them to be comfortable. There comes an understanding that sometimes you yourself treat other people’s boundaries inappropriately. 3️⃣ You begin to mark boundaries more carefully, but more clearly and strictly. With love. Both to people and to your borders. Lots of respect for yourself and others. The boundaries become tight but flexible. Alive. But people continue to disappear and others appear. 4️⃣ It doesn’t even occur to anyone to run into your borders. Or it doesn’t have time to reach you - it’s blocked at the root by circumstances, other people and others. 5️⃣ (by this stage, resource availability is such that it’s like a cornucopia) Boundaries are no longer needed. Come in, take as much as you can carry!!️‼️Working with boundaries is a deep process. About the truth in front of yourself. And risk. And risk also requires a resource. So it’s not so easy to figure out which comes first, the chicken or the egg, resources or boundaries. But we must understand that there is always an opportunity. And sometimes there will be kickbacks. During the transition to a new level of life, during times of stress. But be careful with yourself. Who has stories about healing boundaries in their life? ___________________________1. The first express consultation via Skype is free2. Consultation via Skype or face-to-face (in Krasnodar) – 1300 rub. (appointment by phone 89618501107)3. 50% discount on the first 5 sessions on working with parents