What do you think a child experiences when going to school? If relations in the class (school) are friendly, understanding and respect for each other reign, then the school gives him a feeling of joy. It happens differently. The school makes many demands, sets many conditions (if you, then... etc.). The evaluation process also begins, and this is not easy to survive if you are not among the best. There may be a fear of making a mistake. Therefore, parental support is invaluable here. Even if there are good relationships in the class, every new day brings something unfamiliar and incomprehensible. And this leads to anxiety and isolation. Therefore, at first, it is advisable for parents to take a vacation to support the child and be more close to him. What do you think?.. Many parents anxiously await the onset of September 1, especially if the child enters 1st grade. The child is growing up, he is no longer a preschooler. The worry of choosing a school is behind us. Ahead lies the acquaintance with teachers, a new class and a long series of school years. How can we make sure that the child enters this new period of his life less painfully and is able to accept his school routine? How can I help him in the first months of school? It is imperative to give your child the opportunity to have a good rest in the summer. This does not have to be some kind of trip, although a holiday at sea will not hurt, but will strengthen the child and improve his health, if there are no contraindications. Just don’t spend the summer trying to catch up on lost time by diligently teaching reading and arithmetic. This can discourage a child from going to school. You can unobtrusively, 1-2 weeks before the start of training, study for 10-15 minutes a day using developmental notebooks (there are many of them now), performing tasks on attention, memory and thinking. This tones him up a little before the upcoming learning process. During rest, calmly talk with your child again about school: about its everyday life and holidays. Tell us about your experience, show your school photos. Focus on pleasant moments without exacerbating anxiety, although you should not embellish it. The child must realistically perceive the situation, understand what he must be prepared for. It is better for you to choose school supplies together so that they bring him joy and positive emotions. Lovingly set up his home “school” space. Make it comfortable and pleasant, this is where he will spend a lot of time. It is advisable to take at least two to three weeks off to be with your child during the first days of school. It will be difficult for him and he will need your support. At home, try to create an atmosphere of calm and goodwill. Greet your child from school with a smile. When your child returns from school, ask him about what was interesting at school, what worked out, what didn’t work out so far, who he made friends with. Be patient, don’t scold or punish him for mistakes and ignorance, he is just beginning to learn. Remember that the best incentive is praise for diligence, it inspires. After lessons, he can do his favorite thing for 2-3 hours, walk outside. Try to do homework or teacher recommendations together. It is better to do them at the same time. Do not forget that the child needs your recognition and praise. Rejoice at his successes and small victories. Since fatigue in first-graders is high, it is better to take a short break every 20-30 minutes: water the flowers, feed the fish, eat an apple, etc. It is better to start doing your homework with the simplest ones, then proceed to complex tasks. and leave the most pleasant ones for last. If possible, then after completing your homework it is better to take a walk. A child needs fresh air. It is better to devote very little time to TV. It is advisable to go to bed at the same time, no later than 9 o’clock. Then in the morning there will be no problems getting up. Don’t forget about pleasant moments and your child’s favorite activities. Although he is already a schoolboy, the game in his life is not over yet. Play with your child. Remember that a child cannot quickly adapt to school. This period can last from a month to a year. So!