If we begin to consider how spiritual closeness is lost, then the everyday life that becomes boring seems obvious and one of the main reasons. This is strange, because we build our everyday life the way it is convenient for us. Life should, on the contrary, bring pleasure and even bliss, if we remember that all women try to make a paradise out of their home. True, while you are building your nest, for some reason it turns into a cage and blocks intimacy. It would seem that we are at home, in established conditions, they have isolated themselves from the outside world with their everyday life, why is there less spiritual closeness?! The most obvious reason, although not the main one, is that everyday life requires strength to maintain. And the more complex life is, the more strength it will require. The reason it begins to eat away is because it absorbs our strength at such a speed and in such a volume that there is no longer enough time for each other and in general at some point you begin to remember about your loved one, instead of experiencing spiritual closeness. And it’s even good if you remember. I think not everyone can appreciate the difference between “remember” and “experience.” I'll try to describe it. Attach a couple of examples. So they say to you: “Do you remember that I love you?” What causes this question for you? And at the same time they even ask it with a breath and a pleasant smile, so charming! Or in another way, in the same sacrifice: “Do you feel how much I love you?!” Feel the difference with the first question. As you yourself see, this question is really about something else - about the feeling of being loved)), which should be there now. But both the first question and the second are evidence that there is no spiritual closeness during questions. Why? There is such a strange thing in connection with spiritual intimacy, the reason for which is in the very nature of this type of intimacy - if there is spiritual intimacy, you will not doubt its presence, you will not need confirmation. Just ask yourself: do I have spiritual intimacy with my loved one? The soul will not lie. You can lie, but your soul cannot. But even if you lied, you will feel it: after all, you lied! If you are looking for confirmation of a feeling, it means that something and to some extent has blocked your spiritual closeness, and therefore you need to look for some kind of confirmation. The reason may be in you or in a different. And if you find it and remove it, intimacy will be restored. And you will feel it again. Therefore, if spiritual closeness is an unconditional value for you, then all such questions are evidence that that’s it, you’ve arrived. But not where spiritual intimacy awaits you. And now, to restore intimacy, you need to rewind and remember at what moment you lost it. When you find this place in the past where you stopped feeling spiritual closeness, there will be a distinct moment when you stopped touching another soul. The touch was gone. No, you haven’t necessarily become distant. You are just as dear. But only a little bit not close, since such close souls no longer touch each other. At the same time, everything lost can be returned. There would be a desire. And with desire there are difficulties when everyday life turns out to be a distraction to our souls. The desire for intimacy disappears somewhere, or is lost. Yes, it's more likely to get lost. It is there somewhere, the desire for intimacy, but not where you have built a magnificent life inside the cage in which you walled yourself up. It seems to us that everyday life has firmly bound us together and there is no escape from each other. And some even think that children can keep a loved one in a couple... We are building a way of life that becomes our prison, or even hard labor, and having realized that, holding on to what has been achieved and “acquired by back-breaking labor,” we want our loved one to be with us?! Why does he need this? To serve a sentence together? It is not so uncommon when you yourself run away from your family from the suffocating environment of the built life. Sometimes there is something clearly wrong with everyday life, family life. Not as it could be. But you need to start dealing with everyday life from the ground up, from the point of why you should be together at all. Have you dreamed of living together with your roommate or something else? And what is there about spiritual intimacy?... Sign up for a consultation on the website or by phone +7 914-372-39-34 (WhatsApp, Telegram)