Are there ways to achieve goals like a woman? This question is not far-fetched. Many women rushed into areas that were previously purely male. And they reach certain heights there. But... At the same time, they feel less and less happy. What happens to a woman when she chooses the male model of achieving goals? A woman feels empty, joyless. Because, despite the fact that she began to achieve like a man - i.e. persistently, persistently, uncompromisingly - her strength for achievements is expended from the female reservoir. The nature of a woman is like this. And these forces, by the way, are intended for completely different purposes - for relationships, tenderness, pleasure, sensual living, love. So these women toil, not burdened with material problems, but very tired and irritated. I know this topic well, so to speak, from the inside - I myself was a businesswoman in the past and “carried” two businesses and a family. Tension grows among such tired women achievers, they cannot relax, their whole life is a field for achievement , victories, achievements. Even in the chair getting a manicure, their heads are swarming with thoughts about everything in the world, and they know about nirvana only by hearsay. So, are there ways to achieve goals in a feminine way? What characteristics do you need to have in order to preserve your feminine “vessel” without emptying the ability to love and accept, to get what you want. Here I will make a small digression. Because, from consulting practice, I know well the problem that is called “Inability to receive, take, accept.” This purely feminine trait of “taking” has become so degenerate and perverted that our girls and women cannot accept from their loved ones without a sense of guilt and obligation. even a small, trivial donation (a gift, time, attention). Here I am deliberately not talking about those girls who do not have a problem with taking, but have a problem with giving. They also have a problem, but it is called differently: “Where to find a cash cow”... Today, the topic of inability, inability to take, is a question related to the concept of Self-Love. But within the framework of the topic of achieving goals like a woman, it is worth understanding one very important thing. It even needs to be written out separately and imbued with the deep meaning of what is written every day. In order for a woman to get what she wants, she needs to develop a quality called Acceptance. The ability to accept, like the ability to give, but in the mode of selflessness. The ability to give literally means the following: “I give you something because I have so much of it (love, prosperity, strength, time) that by giving it to you, I will not remain in the minus.” For a man, the skill of selfless giving is necessary (services). For a woman, the skill of selfless acceptance is extremely necessary: ​​“I will take it because I love you and want you to be happy from serving me.” How do you like this ? Not bad! So, dear girls and women, we have considered the main principle of success. What else is important? What I didn’t say is that the state of acceptance is impossible without a state of fullness. The state of being filled with feminine energy is characterized by the following feeling: “I have so much of everything (love, joy, happiness) that I will gladly give and take with pleasure if they offer it. And if they don’t offer it, then I have it in abundance. And because they did NOT give me, I will NOT become less happy!” I often touch on the topic of acceptance in my publications. Because for many women, mastering the ability of “free” acceptance, which is not burdened by a sense of obligation and obligation, is difficult. Difficult for many reasons. This is an example of mothers and grandmothers who have become carriers of the idea “I am myself,” and this is also a personal negative experience. But... having an understanding of your feminine nature, the task of feminine destiny, you can already see the road along which you should follow to your own destiny. Which is largely (if not all!) due to our birth in a female body. Nature itself made sure that a woman could achieve.