In order to clarify the topic of the relationship between the feminine and the masculine, as well as why the mother of the worst people (and men) is the beginning of history, it is worth paying very careful attention to the mechanism of the nature of desire in humans . Freud explored this issue through the prism of “two principles: the reality principle and the pleasure principle,” through signs of behavior in infants. When a baby screams, don’t we often call this state “hysteria”? Or when a child demands to buy an unnecessary toy and begins to “hysteria” because of this? Why is the word “hysterical” often used in relation to an “obnoxious” woman? What do “infantile” child tantrums and hysterical women have in common? In Freud's work “On the Two Principles of Pleasure,” this question takes the form of unsatisfied desires in infants. Men endure, but women and children are allowed to cry - this is taught in our culture. Which is probably wrong, because... is a means of manipulation to maintain female infantilism and “cultivate” the consumer. Psychoanalysis gives an understanding that any woman’s problem can be solved by curing her of hysteria and eliminating the hysterical vector of the unconscious. Then desires take on meaning, a woman’s thinking becomes more structured and logical structures that are not inferior to reality are increasingly noticeable. Alas, I have seen such changes in the mental world of women in practice. What do we get - the uncontrollable nature of desire and the minimal presence of the Reality Principle, which Freud wrote about, attributes of women, not men? Men, but not children, are characterized by asceticism. It consists in satisfying women’s desires more often than their own. We are now fundamentally approaching the understanding of Woman not as just an infantile biomaterial and an individual differing in gender from a man, but as a Being who triggers the cycle of the Nature of Desire not only through motherhood. By the way, the allegory of “machines of desire” in the schizoanalysis of Deleuze and Guattari is the authors’ unconscious appeal to the inner woman (anime), although it is possible that they are quite a conscious metaphor for the role of a woman or mother in the world of men. So, the launch of the Cycle of the Nature of Desires is associated with the birth of a child and, according to the “two principles of pleasure,” motherhood is the dominant mechanism responsible for the forms of implementation of “infantile failures” in the future. Mother and child are always in fusion, regardless of how healthy the “environment” of fusion is. The child will always mirror the unconscious of the mother, and not the father, if separation has not been completed. What are the needs of the mother’s personality, the unconscious desires of the child will be filled in the event of “upbringing mistakes.” Although the gender of the child is completely unimportant in this process, an insufficiently good alliance between the baby and the mother, an insufficiently healthy environment for this symbiosis, creates hysteria in a woman and psychopathy in a man. Separation is not a simple process. Many relatively healthy adults suffer from this. But breaking the pathological symbiosis between mother and child turns out to be even more difficult. But it is the mother’s unresponsiveness to the child’s needs, her own dissatisfaction and hysteria, as a pathology, that trigger an unhealthy personality mechanism and an infantile psyche in a person. You can consider this fairly common pathology using the example of the heroes of the film: “Something is wrong with Kevin” (“We need to talk about Kevin”). In this film, the story is about the “cold” mother of a psychopath, who subsequently killed his entire family and half the school’s students, although an unresponsive mother will not necessarily raise a serial killer, nevertheless, this story is a vivid example of the role played by the mother’s personality and the mother’s actions in relation to child and the formation of his satisfaction with Life. We can say that the mother’s unconscious is a trigger for the formation of psychopathy in men or hysteria in women. As for the above-mentioned film, which builds.