Since childhood, men have one reliable trick for each other that works more effectively than a fist, a carrot, and, often, turns out to be stronger than common sense... It fits in one phrase - “Are you weak?” And normal guys put their own and other people’s lives in danger so that no one dares to say that they are weaklings. With age, as is commonly believed, the brain usually falls into place, and daredevils begin to understand that “weak” tricks are a trap, and a truly strong and independent man should not walk along the ledge of the 9th floor to prove to an idiot from next door that he is not a coward. However, in reality, only the games and the wording for manipulation change. In a man’s head, everything remains the same: he must prove to the whole world that he is not a weakling. Hey, take it easy... Men, you don’t like the word “should” so much... Do you know why? Because from childhood, a man hears this verb in different formulations: a man MUST protect, provide, a man MUST be strong, a man MUST NOT be a weakling, a man MUST NOT cry. Yes, of course. A man has functions that are more typical for him - to be physically stronger than a woman, to devote more time to work and earning money, so that a woman can devote more time to raising children, home comfort and her loved one. A man is a superhero who can really do anything. And, yes, men, you are absolutely right - this superhero doesn’t owe anyone anything. You yourself determine what you want to achieve in this life, what position to achieve, what scale your business will be, what kind of woman will be next to you, what kind of house your children will grow up in. It is within your power to achieve whatever you want. You will still prove to everyone what you are worth... This is the first switch for success. You imperceptibly slip into that very childish “weakness”. And you waste your energy on it, instead of directing your will towards what could really make you happy and successful. If it seems to you that one does not interfere with the other, try cycling 100 meters with your back turned backwards. Just drive... And if you need records? Of course, you are not a weakling. To prove this, you can even break your neck. Or don’t waste energy on it, and do what is convenient for you. In the men’s world, it is generally accepted that a man MUST be psychologically stable, solve all problems on his own, and NOT A WEAK DOES NOT need a psychologist. By the way, are you now sitting so that your colleagues cannot notice what site you are on? Well, this is your right, although living without regard for others always gives you much more rights. And when you receive the first significant confirmation of this, you no longer need to look around. Just move forward to know what you can now get from the world and what superpowers you have... SEVERAL REASONS TO VISIT A PSYCHOLOGIST FOR MEN FROM TIME TO TIME1. Become more successful. Do you seriously think that any visit to a psychologist assumes that he will serve you as a vest and a handkerchief at the same time? The man's breast hug from "Fight Club" is cancelled. But the fight itself is closer to the point. If you are focused on career growth, developing your own business, or effective personnel management, working with a psychologist will be more like training with a fitness instructor. Yes, the techniques of psychological self-defense, attack, negotiations can be practiced, and the muscle of oratory skills can be pumped up. And it doesn't matter how successful you are at this, working on your own. A competent psychologist, as well as a fitness instructor, will always have something to share with you. By the way, all senior managers worked with coaches. Because management, negotiations, positioning can really be learned. And in some cases it is necessary. Especially in competitive conditions, when your opponents are already psychologically savvy.2. Get rid of bad habits and even lose excess weight. Of course, there is much demand for male beauty.