There is a type of people who have not yet been thoroughly described in psychology textbooks. And his name is: household tyrant. In principle, this is a form of psychological violence, but exclusively on a domestic basis. This is when you are tyrannized on everyday grounds with or without reason, and the claims reach the point of absurdity. For example: “you put the butter in the butter dish wrong!”, “cups should be placed with the front side, not the side”, “spoons and forks in the dishwasher the car must lie in a certain way, as I said!”, “here you didn’t wash, here you over-salted, there you overcooked.” In general, no matter what you do at home in everyday life, it will not be so. After all, it’s only right as the everyday tyrant said. After all, he knows better which rag to wipe the window with and which one to polish the oven. And in general, a woman “should wash, clean, cook and keep quiet.” The everyday tyrant takes out his aggression in the most absurd form. “Cook the shrimp,” he says. If you fry them in a frying pan, “no, you should have cooked them.” If you cook them in a pan - “no, you should have made them in a frying pan.” Whatever you do, most often it will be done wrong. After all, he “knows better, he knows better.” If you come home with apprehension, if you are shudderingly waiting for your partner at home, if you are afraid of putting things in the wrong way or doing something wrong around the house, if you are ready to endure the role of “a woman sitting at home,” to live like a bird, so as not to encounter everyday demonism, then most likely you are subjected to psychological domestic violence. In such relationships, you gradually begin to lose yourself, your essence. Your development is hampered, and the level of aggression of a domestic tyrant is increasing every day. In this post I do not touch on the topic of physical violence. Although it often occurs precisely in everyday life. Here we are talking only about the form of psychological influence through complaints in everyday life. Yes, of course, many quarrel on domestic grounds. Especially when people get used to each other in everyday life. But if you begin to gradually fade in this relationship and suffer in silence, then it’s time to seek psychological support. Who has encountered such everyday tyrannism? Subscribe to my telegram channel: https://t.me/sherlock_psychology