From the author: The uniqueness of a woman is that she rises and moves on, even if she feels that she can no longer Now that ecology, food, information and most external factors are directed to destroy life, nature, like a good mother, protects her children and becomes very picky. Only the strongest, most resilient, most robust organism is able to adapt to the stress conditions in which we live. The woman who suffered the loss of an unborn life is precisely the strongest, the most resilient, the toughest, otherwise such trials and experiences simply did not exist. Every fifth pregnancy ends in loss, which means this is necessary for the development of humanity, for the balance of nature, for natural selection. This is God's plan, and it is up to people to accept it as a fact. A person will not keep everything under his control, although many try very hard to find reasons, get answers to questions that arise, find someone to blame or blame themselves and suffer for a long time and unhappily. Once we admit that it is simply impossible to control everything, is it really possible to reverse summer and winter, day and night, the beginning of life and its end. Therefore, the birth of a child is a process that is not under human jurisdiction. God gives us exactly what we need, and what is most interesting exactly when we need it. After all, an apple will not ripen in the spring and grain will not germinate without soil. Losing a pregnancy is very painful... But this is also the experience of motherhood, a kind of knowledge that makes a woman more sensitive, responsible, and attentive. The desire to have a child increases greatly, activating the deep innate instincts of survival and procreation, giving impetus to a more prepared and thoughtful new start. Just don’t be afraid, fear has never helped anyone overcome pain. Fear, like dark glasses, covers up optimism, positivity, and anxiety begins to take over. The question often arises: is it necessary to look for the cause. I will say: “Yes.” Just to understand yourself better. An inventory of the causes, both external and internal, gives the woman confidence that next time everything will be taken into account. To restore mental strength after terrible emptiness and grief, it is vital to undergo positive therapy, tune in to success and become even more focused on success - a long-awaited result in the form small miracle. If you can’t do it yourself, look for helpers, people who will inspire you to success, remove doubts and break your pain into small pieces, so it will go out faster, like ice in a glass, which melts faster when the pieces are small. Look around, there are people everywhere. They were also born. This means that there is still hope that your baby will one day run among them. What will help you survive the pain?.. Faith that the born child will be healthy. Love for life, for yourself, for your family, which is also experiencing the pain of loss with you - after all, children are born from love. Faith, hope and love to all, God's blessing! Nazarevich Victoria