From the author: Spring will help you meet new love! You should clearly imagine the goal of working on yourself - a free, confident person, to whom all possibilities are open, including the possibility of choosing a sexual partner. You should remember and relive the feeling of freedom from other people, the feeling of independence and self-worth, imagine how great it is to control your own body and soul, not to depend on someone else’s gaze or a phone call. Life is a theater, and you can play any role . You can imagine yourself as a happy womanizer, enjoying life (a girl can imagine herself as a bitch, using men for her own pleasure). Your entire future life depends on this game. Transform yourself, and you will turn from a yearning lover into a happy person. You can look at the situation as if from the side of your friend (who treats you well). Such a person could coldly and judiciously note the shortcomings of your former lover, his weaknesses, defects of character and upbringing, his past misdeeds. Now think about how such a wonderful person (you) could become attached to such an unworthy person? You should raise your own self-esteem; many people strive to get a confident person. And it happens that the victim and the executioner change places, and the lover who abandoned his girlfriend tries to win her again. If you decide to break off the relationship, then do it unambiguously and irrevocably. Don't step on the same old mistakes. Find new love, you have a chance to meet your ideal partner. They knock out a wedge with a wedge. New meetings, new faces, new emotions - all this will help you take your mind off your troubles and gain a new interest in life. Go on vacation, go somewhere far away from places and objects that remind you of your former love.