Imagine that your man has done something wrong or seriously offended you. How do women react to this in most cases? Basically, there are two options here - either be demonstratively offended and remain silent, or, on the contrary, start being hysterical, start a scandal and sort things out. Well, I think you know that none of these options are really effective. So what to do? How can you explain to a man that you can’t be treated like that and how to make him really hear you and, most importantly, understand you correctly? In fact, there is such a way. Therefore, let's take a closer look at how you need to behave so that your man begins to really respect and hear you. So, let's assume your man has offended you in some way. For example, he didn’t come to your date on time or canceled it altogether and didn’t even really explain to you the reason for his action. And if this is also repeated with enviable regularity, then don’t go to your grandmother - and it’s clear that your man doesn’t really respect you if he thinks he can afford to treat you like that. What are you doing in in that case? It’s nothing more than being amazed or starting to become hysterical and read morals to him, but it still doesn’t bring the desired effect. So try changing your tactics a little one day. The next time your man is late again or cancels your date, don’t immediately fall into despair and don’t start a scandal. Just calmly tell him that you can’t behave like that with you, because you respect yourself and your time, because you, too, may have some things of your own that you sacrificed for the sake of meeting him. Therefore, if he cannot show up on time or even allows himself to cancel your date at the last minute, then this is not suitable for you. That is, let him know that if he doesn’t change anything, he won’t see you again. Say all this in a calm, even and confident voice - this is important. Then you can smile goodbye and leave. An important point here is that the man has the opportunity to think about your words and understand that you were not joking when you said it. He must understand that he can really lose you and if you are dear to him and he needs you, he will change his behavior. Give him a little time and simply “disappear” from his life for this very time. There is no need to call him every day and ask whether he has already made his mistake and why he still does not come to you to ask for forgiveness and sprinkle ashes on his head. Just be relaxed and confident. Understand that it is by this behavior, and not by shouting and insults, that you will change his understanding of what he previously thought was your usual way of responding to such behavior. After all, he was sure that you were “hooked” on him and he knew what he could expect from you. Now everything has changed and he feels as if now he is the one on your hook, while you can really just disappear from his life at any moment. Most likely, in the near future the man himself will get in touch with you, because that he will want to know if you have changed your mind yet. In a word, it will “test the waters” to understand how seriously you said all this last time. Be nice and friendly to him, you can say that you are glad to hear from him, but do not return to your previous conversation. Then explain that you still have a lot to do and be the first to say goodbye to him. You will see that the man is waiting for you to either, as always, start to “nag” him because he hasn’t called you for so long, or at least wait so that he invites you somewhere again, and at the most - even if you offer to meet somewhere, he will simply be shocked that you were so calm and confident. And most importantly, your man will understand that you weren’t joking and he can really lose you if he doesn’t start taking you seriously. And I think that’s exactly what you needed - to convey to your man that you really need to be respected, because you