Whether you are 20 or 60 years old, you have probably met a person in your life about whom you didn’t even have time to think, but he made some kind of movement, looked somehow - special, said a few words, and an inexplicable “mine” flashed through your mind. Then you began to look at him in more detail, start a relationship, and drove away the fleeting thought: “How is it possible! I don't know this person at all! What nonsense! If you are used to justifying and weighing everything, then most likely you did not even notice the flashing “mine”. But it was precisely the initial, that second “feeling” that already determined exactly what would happen to this relationship. If you remember, your happy marriage was determined not by the question “To marry or not to marry?”, but by the fact that in the first second you realized that this was your wife or your husband. This is the answer to intuition. It always comes before you start asking yourself a question. Don't be surprised, but we know the answers to all our questions before it occurs to us to ask them. This is the miracle of our psyche. And the ability to use the “subconscious reference” can create incredible things in our lives. Looking into the space “before the question” is not easy, but it is possible. The ability to notice the “original source” is truly an invaluable gift that can protect us from many “unexpected situations.” Let's see how “it works”: The door slammed, the keys were nervously thrown on the nightstand, the phone was locked, a superficial glance. You see this picture, and for a split second the thought “she’s cheating on me...” flashes through your head. Then consciousness turns on: “Nooo...well, no! She's just tired! She came home, fried cutlets, washed the dishes, stroked my head...” Immediately, forgetting about the second thought, you continue your usual “sleep” on the sofa. Only after some time, with obvious facts, do you consciously ask yourself the question: “Is it changing or not?” And you get the answer, already sitting in an empty apartment and sipping “doshirak”. Perhaps you remember that you “felt the answer” before you ran out of cutlets in the refrigerator? Intuition is capable of capturing many more nuances and facts than you can “digest” consciously. It relies not only on the fact “here and now”, but connects little things that are elusive to the human eye, for example, the slightest changes in behavior, movements, actions that a person has not performed before, and produces lightning-fast results. This is what our rationality most often questions and tries to “bury” in its depths as quickly as possible. Another example: You jumped out to work an hour earlier and were even surprised: “Why am I so reactive today?” But, having almost lost your bonus for being late, you were glad that “something” kicked you out of the house early. This “something” is long before your question “Why so early?” already knew for sure that you needed to leave early and took into account the day of the week, traffic congestion, time, weather, and your problems with starting the car. You just automatically (thank your intuition) did what “saved” you from the wrath of your boss. So, the intuitive answer (advice) slips into the thoughts preceding the question. If you can roll back to the moment you formulated the question, you will get the answer you need. For clarity, let's use the examples below to try to take a kind of freeze-frame of a fleeting response (usually it slips unnoticed). In the morning half-asleep, a young man hugs a cold pillow. He is uncomfortable, lonely, cold, among the “unawakened thoughts” flies “... I need to call her.” As he wakes up, his thoughts jump to planning the day, the neighbor buzzing from above, cooking breakfast, yesterday’s quarrel with his girlfriend and... then he returns to the pressing issue and begins to twirl the phone in his hands and ask himself the question: “Should I call or not call? Call?! Don’t call?!” Perhaps he will no longer remember that second morning thought with the decisive “I need to call!” Or, sitting at work on a Friday, your gaze wanders around the office and you see a colleague deliciously eating homemade pie.!