Let's be honest - we all, one way or another, were "hurt" in childhood. Everything that is happening now or has happened in our lives, in our relationships with partners, with children - all these are echoes of programs and beliefs that we learned at a tender age. Learned by our parents in their childhood. Learned by our parents’ parents. Systemic family history, which passed down from generation to generation, “by word of mouth.” Each such “wounded” parent will definitely add something new, but no less distorted, into their child’s picture of the world. Not because he wishes evil - because of love!! As paradoxical as this may sound. “You want a lot, but you don’t get enough” - for a child of any gender “But the neighbor’s daughter is great, she can do it (there are a lot of options - what exactly), but you can’t” - for a teenage girl “In our family, all the men are idiots” - for a small child son “We don’t have money for this” “You don’t deserve this” “Sit quietly - don’t attract attention to yourself” “They wanted a son, but they got a daughter” “They wanted a daughter, but they got a son” All this and much more - real phrases from life and practice. What's being broadcast? You won't succeed You're not worthy Don't be a leader, don't stick your head out Money is not for you Being a boy is bad Being a girl is bad And much more! When analyzing any client story - men or women - I always draw the client's attention to these phrases: Killer phrases, which are imprinted into the subconscious and secretly rule a person, involving him in traumatic relationships or situations, where every time he finds confirmation of his uselessness, inferiority, simply - the lack of self-love. But there is good news - this is a fixable matter. Yes, searching for the truth can be painful... but no more painful than now, when the rake of negative experience hits your forehead over and over again. Whatever happens to you, this is your unique experience and for some reason you needed it. Believe me! And change with love, as always❤