From the author: The entire article is here, look...I would like to share wise thoughts from the “Step Forward” festival from the amazing psychologist Rimma Efimkina. She taught provocative classes in which people got angry, cried, laughed... but also saw the light... So, here they are, look: A person who does what he wants is happy. A person who does what he must is unhappy. If there is something in the soul - a thought, a feeling, an intention - let it out. A living woman has both white and black. The same person can be strong in one situation and weak - in another. None of the clients agree with the good work of the psychologist. For a man to start courting, start an impulse. Whoever hooks gets the man. Initiative means that you convey to people what you want from them. Any help from a person without his consent is violence. There is no other way to find out what you want (except for trial and error). You say so, therefore you think so. Do what you can, and come what may. A man certainly cannot give a guarantee that he will make a woman happy .Everyone is responsible for their own orgasm. The same thing about happiness.