“How to start doing something? I know what, I know approximately how, but I don’t do it. I keep putting it off.” “I have a similar question. I love writing, I like the process, I start and quit. I like it though. There is always someone and something more important." To be honest, I laughed a little. No, not over questions. They are beautiful. Above the one to whom they were asked - me - a person who tries to quit everything at least once a month 😁 Yes, yes. This is precisely the case when a psychologist is not ideal all around, and he is tormented by the same problems as non-psychologists. The annoying keyboard only allowed me to write this word the tenth time and agreed that such people also exist 😁So. Before I started sculpting this text, I sat and whined in my diary about how I was fed up with everything and didn’t want to write anything. At the same time, the thought of not writing at all also for some reason did not raise my spirits. I wrote a long explanation that if I don’t write, the world won’t collapse. And in general, you should write for pleasure, and not under pressure. And another hundred to five hundred of some moronic persuasion. Although I didn’t even understand what exactly I was persuading myself to do - to quit or continue 😁And after all this preamble, from the state: “It’s all gone to hell!” - I’m writing an answer. “You sow a thought, you reap an action; sow an action, reap a habit; sow a habit, reap a character; sow character, reap destiny,” seems to be Aristotle, but this is not certain. Now in terms of composition: 1. Sow a thought, reap an action. Deed = action. If a thought flies into our head like a fly through a window, then it cannot help but be translated into action. This is the natural order of things. How everything that is born lives and dies. Any action will be possible! solution. Even the decision to do nothing is an action. Procrastination is an action. Trying to form letters into words and appear smart is an action. If I had not written this text, it would have been an act of not writing the text. But I chose to try to write. 2. If you sow an action, you will reap a habit. Here the parable about wolves comes to mind - the one you feed becomes stronger. If you choose the action “postpone,” you strengthen the habit of procrastination. If you choose to do... well, you get the idea. 3. Sow a habit, reap a character. Character - I can no longer do otherwise. It becomes part of the personality. I can't help but do it. Tired, exhausted, irritated, but I still can’t bear the thought of “scoring.” I pay the price for this. But there are definitely fruits too. And there is no option to receive and not give anything. I suffer from my character, which does not allow me to quit what I started, even if it is already meaningless. But it is thanks to him that you are now reading this text. 4. Sow character, reap destiny. Well, it’s too early for me to draw conclusions here. I hope the results make me more happy than sad. For now, I am more grateful for my character than I want to get rid of it. Still, he helped me out more than once and brought me to the point where I am now. I have no idea if she answered. I hope questioners will provide feedback or ask additional questions. The topic can still be developed for a long time. There is no short and clear recipe. What helped me write today was that I connected my state with the text. I didn’t try to break myself and pretend to be something that I’m not at the moment. And, of course, a character that pays dearly for results. I help you establish connections with reality. Flexible payment system. 8-964-835-44-28 (it’s better to write rather than call).