What feelings and emotions are similar to this small flaming and very dangerous particle? A spark can ignite a flaming and destructive fire of a joint life or joint creativity. A spark of discord, most likely with dirty scale, can ruin a bright and trusting relationship. It is important for all participants in the relationship to understand the highest degree of involvement. Now, if people’s lives are harmonious and smooth, predetermined and predictable, then people with certain behavioral accentuations experience boredom, apathy and despondency instead of joy and happiness. It's all about the absence of this very spark. The spark of the soul has many synonyms when considered in different social systems. For example, in my native education system, this spark is called “motivation.” And in the system of creative creation, it is “inspiration.” In the system of physiology and medicine and other sciences, such a spark is called “scientific search.” In psychology, as the science of the soul, such a spark - this is a premonition and prerequisites for a state of happiness. In love, the spark is desire, attraction and magnetism. Sometimes the spark can be a provocation or a problematic situation. Just now I took my eyes off the fire in the stove door and thought how many associations and life situations came to mind from simply contemplating the living fire. The flames instantly turn the solid substance into a pile of black coals, changing not only the structure, but also the appearance. My hand feels warm, and my body feels relaxed and blissful. It’s the same in relationships. Love, attraction and passion ignite a person with small sparks, giving his life light, warmth and attractiveness to the situation. a storm of emotions is then replaced by a handful of ashes and the desire to find new sources of energy to maintain the level. The measure in handling fire is the measure in the needs of the partner. Skillful users of fire, tamers of raging fires that leave scorched ashes - these are people armed with knowledge about human relationships. Night and winter always need fire. The darkness and coldness in relationships will definitely be overcome if the partners desire to find that very spark that can give a new round of energy of love and understanding. Light to everyone, goodness and peace. On the pages of the article is a psychologist who accepts and supports Galina Yakovenko. Viber, WhatsApp 89271287007