And I love a married man Family counseling. Married men are often very attractive. They are experienced, have a pleasant maturity, are sensual and attentive. In general, they know what a woman needs. If you have a short romance with them, then it’s an adventure. Why not? But if year after year goes by, a woman grows in body and soul, not noticing anyone around her, as if a wedge had converged on this comrade. Girls, this is already a mental disorder. The woman completely stops being critical of the situation. He doesn’t see real things, that for several years the loved one does not leave the family, it’s good if he at least didn’t promise anything. Then the responsibility and sacrificial choice for the results of this connection are yours. You will only have to look for the guilty in the mirror. Looking into it, it would be good to look at yourself and understand that the girl was playing with love. Besides, everyone understands that you can’t build happiness on someone else’s misfortune. After all, on your way you need to sweep away the nest with living people, the children of a loving father and trample on your faithful wife, who is only to blame for being older than you. Think about my words. Are you really such a bloodthirsty homewrecker, ready to go to heart to heart with dirty galoshes? Unpleasant! Yes. I don’t want to reproach you, I’m just calling a spade a spade. You don’t need to take someone else’s, and who will shake your hands if not me, an adult woman and an experienced psychologist. It’s worse if life rubs your nose into your mistakes. And yet, do not smooth over your immoral actions and do not hide behind love. All this is bullshit, fornication and temptation. I also want to conduct emotional stress therapy. Keep in mind that you are eating scraps from the master's table. It's nice for you to be loved, but just a decorative dog. Love can be different: for the homeland, for the mother, for work, for the cat, for the yard in which you grew up, and do not confuse it with real, true, sublime love for a woman. Try to do this psychological experiment or test. Make your own or buy a toy house. Decorate it. Place your beloved man, his children and wife in it. And then take a hammer and try to destroy it all. Will your hand go up? If yes, then this is not love, but selfishness. And will you be so desirable to someone whose nest you destroyed? At the same time, you need to seriously think about whether you can create something of your own, whether you have a craving for destruction, because a person is not able to appreciate others people, will not be able to preserve what he has created. Find the strength to look at all this from the outside, and not from your point of view, understand that this is stolen happiness. Isn’t it time to put an end to the relationship, because you see how your friend is not going to leave the family. This means that there he feels cozy, comfortable, protected and there he is at home, and with you he is just a guest. And think about it, people usually spend holidays with those they love. Stop and choose your path in life without interfering with others. Your O.S.