From the author: Quarrels are inevitable, even with the closest and most beloved people. How to do this correctly and effectively - this is what the article is about. How to quarrel correctly? Several important rules and recommendations that will make your quarrel as productive and painless as possible for all participants in the process.✅ You should quarrel in private. Do not organize demonstrations, do not give food for gossip - if we are talking about others. The rule about the absence of children during a quarrel is clear - there shouldn’t be any 🔞 The quarrel will pass - and the child is guaranteed stress 🤕✅ the subject of the dispute must be clearly and clearly indicated 🔮 and both for you and for the other person - so that a situation does not arise - " let's talk about this and that"✅ try to formulate your opponent’s attitude to the situation. It sounds simple, however, doing this in the heat of the moment is not easy, but it is very useful: “If I understand correctly....🤔”, “do you think that➡” ✅ talk about your feelings😰positive and negative, just talk about them ☝🏽sounds differently: “you’re a scoundrel😤” and “I’m upset because...”✅ another rule - which is easier to know than to follow😥 be prepared to listen to the truth about your behavior. It’s unpleasant, but everyone has equal rights 👉🏾👈🏾✅ ask questions💬clarify the situation! Help another find the right words 📢✅ look for common ground 🙏🏽 find out what you agree on and what you disagree on➡⬅ and which of all this is the most important for you 🔆✅ don’t cut it in the heat of the moment! Don't burn bridges! Let the first outburst of anger pass. You yourself will rejoice later when you realize how many problems you were able to avoid, and what firewood you didn’t chop - in the heat of the moment you went for a walk for half an hour. Or take the hand of a partner who has become overwhelmed and quietly say - stop 📛 develop a stop word for yourself that will serve as a sign that you need to pull yourself together 🆘✅ criticism is certainly a useful and necessary thing, and even more so for every arguing person considers himself an unsurpassed master of satire 🙀 but if the goal is to achieve mutual understanding with a person important to you and make relationships that are important to you stronger and healthier - put forward rational proposals and ideas! 🤓 it’s better to have one thought “to the point” than a stream of refined criticism.✅ and a little trick😉 try addressing “you” when you quarrel😎 this will not allow you to go to the level of throwing abusive words, but will help you be more correct in your choice of expressions😛 If you quarrel - then it is better to do it wisely. And remember at the same time that the person in front of you is important to you. This fact should be at the forefront ❣ Have a good relationship!