The closer the holiday is to us, the more we are faced with how differently we experience this holiday. And we sense, feel and plan our participation in it. Yes, exactly in different ways. And so that there is no basis for conflicts, let's look at how this (New Year's Eve) happens for different people. Some are full of energy, hopes and magical expectations, while others, on the contrary, are calm and measured, since everything is going according to the long-planned scenario. Someone is fussing and trying to do everything, even what is clearly taking 25 hours in a day. And someone, having forgotten to buy peas, suggests the idea of ​​“giving up Olivier”, which plunges his household into shock. Some people want a holiday, while others are sad and sad on this day. Because “in the past, there is such an unpleasant story, you know...”. Someone spent all their money on gifts, without really thinking about how they would live for the next month. And someone showed ingenuity and made gifts with their own hands. And someone else thinks that gifts are completely unnecessary, attention is important. Someone will have fun all New Year's Eve and fall asleep happy in the morning. Someone else will go to bed after the chimes, comfortably wrapped in a blanket, with a smile and memories of how pleasant the holiday was. 100,500 tasks per day, plus cleaning and decorating the holiday table for the whole family, will make someone tired, but immensely happy. Pizza delivery on the eve of a holiday to a friendly company will also be met with a bang! Let's remember that the feeling of the holiday is different for us all and it may not coincide even among loved ones in the same family. Ask yourself, what will make you happy on this day? Perhaps the answer will not appear immediately, since the “correct New Year’s Eve” is already in our memory, like many other people. But is this right for you? What will make this holiday unforgettable for you? What is the most pleasant thing you remember from childhood and would you like to repeat it in your adult life? How exactly can you transform your holiday, make it unforgettable and “correct for your Adult self?” Happy New Year 2023! This will be a completely different story! Photos from the Internet. Author: clinical psychologist, family psychologist, psychotraumatologist Svetlana Nikolskaya.