In our lives nothing happens for nothing, everything is natural and everything has consequences. All situations arise because a decision was made, a choice was made. How a person reacts to a situation that arises is a choice, and this choice is already followed by consequences. Each of us has a choice and further events depend on what it will be. Therefore, there are no accidents in our lives... everything is built as if in a chain, one event comes out of another. Any situation can be calculated, analyzed, examined from different angles, considering various options for the development of the event. This can only be done if you react adequately and calmly to the situation, and be in the moment without including emotions (fear, aggression, panic, crazy joy, etc.). Everything that happens in our lives happens for a reason. Everything is changing around, the world is changing, and we are changing with it. Everything that happens has a meaning and all this carries with it an important experience for us, different for each person. Even if it’s unpleasant and it seems like life is over and the whole world is against you... but it’s not, it’s just an illusion of our fear. If difficulties arise in life, it means that inevitable changes will soon occur, and our future life depends on how we perceive them. Changes are indeed inevitable, but resisting in attempts to hold on to the old only prolongs the agony and your suffering even more. By accepting changes and letting go of the old, it is easier to move to a new stage of your life. It’s like a “little death”, when the old dies and then a new one is born... a new “I”, a new stage of life, a new stage of development... The new and unknown is always difficult to accept, fears and doubts overwhelm, creating resistance that pulls you back . But where our fears and resistance are, there is our growth and new achievements. It all depends on perception, on a person’s desire and willingness to change and be patient. And all our fears that prevent us from accepting changes are just an illusion in our head. An illusion that is created by our own beliefs. Everything in our lives happens for a reason, and everything happens for the better. By accepting negative experiences, we gain positive experiences..