From the author: sexologist-psychotherapist, family psychologist. expert on television programs, member of the professional psychotherapeutic league, master of NLP, educational psychologist, specialist in the eastern version of neuroprogramming, specialist in personal well-being and family relationships, trainer, coach, esoteric psychotherapist. The author of more than 500 articles on a variety of problems, which you can see by looking at the *articles* section and, probably, this will already help solve your problem. The author of more than 100 training programs, as you can see by visiting my video channel on YouTube and typing “Afanasyeva Lilia.” Recently, a girl from Moscow came to see me as a psychologist, sexologist and psychotherapist. The topic of our work was her reluctance to have sex. I have to work with a wide variety of male, female and family sexual problems, and problems with libido and orgasm are not uncommon in my practice. Therefore, this practice turned out to be quite simple. The girl noted that she had no desire to have sex with her boyfriend. This seemed somewhat surprising to her. She didn’t particularly notice any signs of alibidemia, or lack of desire in sex. And delving into the essence of the problem, it further became clear that the guy did not suit her only in sex. But in everything else the man was good, so it was necessary to carry out sexual correction , so that it becomes clear how solvable the problem is. To do this, we had to resort to the “lost parts” technique, which is often used by family psychologists, sexologists and psychotherapists. And we partially returned the passion and desire that remained with her past man. The girl was filled with the realization that now she would be with her boyfriend in mind, body and in general completely with him. Next, we removed the discomfort, barrier and misunderstanding in sex, which partly served as the source of her sexual female problems, and problems with orgasm and libido, filling her pleasure and pleasure. The client saw a changed image of herself. It was her, only more excited. The girl called herself a “nymphomaniac”, she liked her new state. Then, we added her desire to experiment. And she saw herself in beautiful underwear and stiletto heels. The thought came to her that it was probably time to fulfill her dream and start practicing on the pole. To do this, it would be nice to lose weight. The image has once again changed, it seems to have become more sexual and sophisticated. The next sexual female problem was of this kind: I don’t feel desire from him and it is imposed on me. We removed self-doubt and low self-esteem from her, and instead added grace and flirtatiousness. And here again is advice that all experienced sexologists, family psychologists and psychotherapists are aware of: sometimes we ourselves are closed and cold, and if a man does not have very good self-esteem, and is not confident enough in himself, then he can think in the same way as a girl, especially if he has some kind of male sexual problem. For example, the syndrome of anxious anticipation of sexual failure (ASF) or premature ejaculation (early ejaculation), or any problems with potency and erection that require treatment or solutions in terms of sexual therapy. I note, from my experience as a sexologist, family psychologist and psychotherapist, that Often a woman wants some new sexual surge in a relationship, and expects this from a man. But here, unfortunately, according to RNSO, most often it is women who initiate various kinds of sexual experiments. Therefore, don’t wait, dear ladies – and go ahead to the heights of sex! Become a Goddess for your man!