From the author: sexologist-psychotherapist, family psychologist. expert of television programs, member of the professional psychotherapeutic league, NLP master, best master, educational psychologist, specialist in the eastern version of neuroprogramming, specialist in personal well-being and family relationships, trainer, coach, esoteric psychotherapist. The author of more than 500 articles on a variety of problems, which you can see by looking at the *articles* section and, probably, this will already help solve your problem. The author of more than 100 training programs, as you can see by visiting my video channel on YouTube and typing “Afanasyeva Liliya This girl was quite modest, with a quiet voice. My client from Moscow was a little over twenty. You can immediately assume that partly her anorgasmia stemmed from excessive modesty and tightness. There is a certain pattern here that is known to all experienced sexologists, psychotherapists and family psychologists in terms of libido. The more emotional a girl is, the stronger her orgasm, and vice versa. Of course, this does not always happen. but quite often I come across exactly this option. And then, when we begin to work on women’s sexual problems, and the client expects a miracle to happen, she will experience a “flying” orgasm, then we often have to disappoint her somewhat, and it turns out that there is little emotion. , then they are not present in orgasm, or it may be weak and not particularly manifested. But even in this case, we can quite successfully work with female sexual problems of anorgasmia, frigidity, vaginismus or low libido, and achieve positive results. The first negative memory was associated with a visit to the gynecologist shortly after the first sexual intercourse. The girl remembered the pain during the examination. She was not ready for this, and now, pain sometimes began to appear during sex, hence the slight desire for sex became even less. And the female sexual problem of anorgasmia became more pronounced. I, as a sexologist and family psychologist, helped eliminate this negative experience of the girl, and then this is the story that awaited us. The client said that sex was never exciting. Partners are each other's first, and we had to study and learn everything on ourselves. The guy tried to do long foreplay, which prolonged the sex. The girl didn't always like kissing; she didn't really like it either. I helped remove the cold that had been present since childhood. The client grew up as an under-caressed child, and the hugs of her loved one were associated with this theme. Now, having resolved past negative situations, we have added to the girl’s desire to be more active in sex, temperament, cheerfulness and general cheerfulness, removing the burden of problems. Indeed, after such changes, my client from Moscow felt lighter. She became more talkative and positive. Next, we came to the topic of grievances, when one day a girl wanted to try something new in sex, the guy was indifferent to this, saying that: only you need this. There was a second experiment, when she put on bright sexy lingerie, and he grinned, saying that she reminded him of a girl of easy virtue, this is where the resentment arose, and the desire to experiment and offer something new in sex disappeared. There was another situation when a girl showed activity by suggesting that her husband attend a men’s training on the topic of revealing sexuality in a couple. The husband was also not enthusiastic about this idea, and everything somehow came to naught. Yes, apparently, the spouse does not have much motivation to work to improve the sexual climate in the family. But the girl said that, perhaps, by personal example, working on herself on the female sexual problem of anorgasmia, she would, after all, encourage him to take some action, and sex would become different. So, now we are moving towards sexual therapy for the client, and we are not expecting a positive result. PS This article is.