There are girls who try to take care of everyone. From the series “my husband will be lost without me,” “mom needs help financially,” “help my brother get on his feet and grow up.” They sincerely believe that others need their care and without them they will not survive in this huge, unsafe world. This life scenario develops unconsciously, in the process of growing up. For some reason, the girl takes on this “rescuer” function and literally “pulls everyone along.” But at some point she realizes that she also wants to succeed in the role of a mother. A real mother, a real child. But for some reason pregnancy does not occur. I checked my health - everything is fine. But years pass, and pregnancy does not occur. It just so happens that she plays this role of “mother” for too many people (husband, brother, mother, father, perhaps also grandmother, for example). And very often, the body of such girls, simply on a subconscious level, can prevent a real pregnancy from occurring. The brain reads the information that she already cares a lot about those around her, and caring about one more child will be too much. This scenario is quite common and the solution is actually simpler than it seems. YOU NEED TO STOP PROTECTING ADULTS WHO ARE ABLE TO CANDLE ANY SITUATION THEMSELVES. I'm not talking about extremes, in the case of sick relatives, where guardianship is a necessity and the only option for solving the problem. This is a completely different story. Now we are talking about cases where it is very important to let other ADULTS be “ADULTS”. Relieve yourself of responsibility for their lives. Help if necessary, but do not be a RESCUE. stop thinking that they won’t be able to cope without you. It is especially important not to become a mommy for your own husband. The couple must have 2 mature adults. Key word "ADULTS". And then there will be no resistance in the head and body to become parents. P.S. such scenarios are rarely realized independently. This usually comes up unnoticed during psychotherapy. But in life it is very carefully disguised or denied. But this is a fairly common story. Therefore, in case of infertility, it is always important to involve work with a psychologist. After all, our brain and body are too strongly connected and we can help them to be allies, and not “put a spoke in the wheels.”».